OK, Thanks everyone. I really appreciate the fast input. After much study and consternation, hand wringing, and scowling here is what I have decided to do. It isn't inexpensive but I'll lay it all out, no holds barred.
But first...Truck; 2001 Ford F-250 7.3 Superduty 4X4 E-cab Lariet in Toreador Red over black with a color matched Lear canopy. Banks Stainless 5" dual exhaust from the turbo back. Amsoil Bypass oil filtration, Coolant filtration, oversized Ford 6.0 trans cooler, New Ford valve cover wiring harnesses, hoses, belt, Red ELC flush and changeover, Magnafine transmission filter, Racor Fuel filter, Air-Lift rear air bags with wireless remote & onboard compressor, re-engineered 4R100 trans with a Derale air cooled extra capacity pan, Ford Severe Duty intake air filtration system, new Interstate heavy duty batteries, Edge tuner in tow mode, Pioneer 2 DIN entertainment system with navigation, edge backup camera, Bilstein gas shocks and steering stabilizer etc...etc. Cammo seat covers, new paint here and there due to clear coat failure...all new steering from the pump and hoses down, sway bar links and bushings, tie rods, track bar, a Redhead steering gearbox, ball joints...Fuel tank "Hutch Mod" and tank cleaning, Curt front hitch receiver...on and on.
I'm ditching the old school cast iron/phenolic caliper design all together. I have had this problem for years now. I got stranded in Sandy Oregon in a snow storm due to it. I have babied this truck and I plan on keeping it forever. I have added a bunch of extras to it and I use it mostly for towing, household hauling perhaps weekly, lumber and hardware runs, but no daily driving. I tow a 10,000 pound toy hauler with an 850 pound Indian motorcycle plus tools and gear across the country and back yearly, WA to FL with all manner of stops in between. These trips average 10,000 miles each in temperatures below freezing to over 100 degrees and in all sorts of weather. This will be FL trip number 8. I do the Black Hills MC Rally annually too. Lots of trips in the passes towing my snowmobile in a 6' X 12' enclosed trailer. I also tow a small runabout fishing boat at times. I've towed tractors and backhoes, and lots of stuff. It's a tow rig.
I have stock sized tires. It is not lifted (God forbid). I love the 7.3 which I have maintained meticulously for the 9 years I have owned it beginning at 37,000 miles in 2012. We are now at 143,000. I do all the service and repairs. You can see me doing it on my YouTube channel
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChQ2eXYtoQxq8Af5IQ1keIw The truck is immaculate front to back. I did all the steering last year. It is rust free. No dents. I have done the Mustie1 (a Youtube guy) underside rust prevention process (Bar and Chain oil cut with linseed oil sprayed from an undercoat gun and brushed into the crevices)
I'm as anal retentive as you can get thanks to 36 years as a city Firefighter/Paramedic. I'm now retired.
That said, I am willing to spend money on this truck since I'm keeping it and it's paid for. The new diesel trucks aren't perfect either but they are in short supply and very expensive. Mine... is paid off. I can make a lot of repairs and improvements for less than the 70-90,000 plus it would cost for a new yet imperfect equivalent. Then you get the DPF, DEF bla, bla crap that nobody wants. No Thanks. I know every inch of this truck. I'm a Ford guy all the way so there is no other option. Ram's make me puke and though my dear old long passed away father (rest his soul) worked for GM, I don't like them. Never have. It's a Ford or nothing for me.
So I just ordered 4 Cryo-Sport slotted brake rotors. In stock, $871.26 with tax and free shipping. These are the high carbon steel cryogenically treated and CNC slotted, precision balanced rotors. They are designed for heavy duty towing applications. Link below.
Cryo-Treated Slotted PowerSlot rotors by StopTech are by far the the smartest brake disc choice if you're racing, towing, hauling, fleet driving or running over-sized wheels and tires that are taller or heavier than stock. All those conditions create massive heat and this is THE highest quality...
www.buybrakes.com
I just ordered SSBC (Stainless Steel Brake Corporation) "V-8", 8 opposed stainless steel piston, aluminum billet CNC calipers. They are bolt on and come with everything including semi-metallic pads, clips etc. In stock $2355.25 including tax and Shipping via FedEx ($65.00). Link below.
SSBC-USA is a leading automotive brake systems manufacturer based in Elma, NY. Our state-of-the-art 18,000-square-foot facility produces drum-to-disc conversion kits for classics, custom 8-piston calipers for heavy-duty trucks and other quality brake components for high-performance vehicles.
ssbc-usa.com
That all amounts to a $3226.51 leap of faith boys. But if it keeps me from suffering under the old technology cast iron, lousy sealing, water leaking and rusty, seizing up and out of round phenolic piston Bullsh&t on one of four failing calipers every 20 months... I'm all in. Money well spent. I'm also flushing the DOT 3 out and installing DOT 4.
And for the moment, as far as I know since I haven't driven the truck today... my brakes are in great shape since I just changed the right front a few short days ago. It lasted the predictable ~20 months. I disassembled it last night and frankly, other than rust under the boot that is supposed to prevent it and a little crud on the piston, there doesn't seem to be much wrong with it. Yet, it was seized up tight. The seal looked great and the boots were intact.
I'm going to make a video for my YouTube channel when I install all this stuff and I'll let you know how it goes over time. Hey, 8 pistons per caliper rather than two? What could go wrong?