Sounds like your not quite there yet, but I just did my front seal today without the fancy tool. I put the wear ring in my toaster oven for about 15 mins on 450*F. Go put some loctite on the crank snout right before fetching the hot ring. Then i used a welding glove to rush it out to the motor where I was able to just get it started before it cooled enough to get tight again. At this point, it was maybe 1/10th on.
You cant just hammer it down from here or it'll bend (luckily I had a spare... first one got bent). I used a 2# brass hammer along with a micrometer to light tap around the ring in a circle, checking every time around to make sure its going on evenly. Get it more than 1/2 way on, then gently try to see if you can get the crank pulley on and the bolts to reach. Again, dont force it!
When its on enough for the bolts to start threading in, turn each bolt exactly 1 turn, then go around and turn each 1/4 turn at a time. This will make sure the wear ring is getting pressed on evenly and will avoid getting bent/kinked. With any luck, you'll get it all the way on without damaging it. The pulley pushes it on right to where it needs to be!
Lube up the rubber seal a little, then work it on over the wear ring, and just lightly work it until its flush with the edge of the pump housing. Done!
Will it leak? I dunno

If it does, my machine shop owes me one, as they were supposed to have done this for me

Should at least be enough to get me up to them to let them deal with it!