I'm never one to tell people how to spend their money - you do what's right for you and your rig!
I will agree Ford is very clear, the owner's manual is your document stating "recommended" for the WSS spec. NOT REQUIRED. This document does not leave room for interpretation - it is your guide telling you that they recommend their spec, but they don't require it.
The meets spec list you link to is only the list of submitted oils to be listed on Ford's meets specs list, not a list of REQUIRED oils. The document doesn't list anything as required.
Now, if you can show me where REQUIRED is listed anywhere, you may convince me.
Another telltale sign is the brands listed, A LOT of them are marketed as house brands and regional blends - that is indicative of Ford's spec being similar to API specs - otherwise a lot of the lower end blenders would not have the formulations and cash to tweak their blends to meet unique Ford specs.
Additionally, automotive manufacturers using their own "spec" can be identical to API, ILSAC, and ACEA specs - but creating their own specs are a major revenue stream for them (1) because it scares people into using OEM branded oils (Motorcraft, Dexos, etc.); and (2) it forces oil companies to pay for "approval" listings.
But again, your rig, your money, your piece of mind. I'm biased anyway, I sell Mag1 (Warren Distribution on the Ford list), Castrol, Liqui Moly, among other brands.