TOOK HIM AND BAILED

[REDPOWERSMOKER]

WELL GUYS MY LIFE HAS BEEN STRIPPED FROM MY HANDS SATURDAY NIGHT. MY NOW EX-GIRLFRIEND. I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF HER AND SENT HER ON HER WAY SHE TOOK MY SON AND I HAVE YET TO SEE HIM SINCE... I DUNNO IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO TRY TO COPE WITH THIS MATTER

[mudrunninpig]

Man that stinks, sorry to hear.

[symbols]

That sucks man. I've been in the same place. Unfortunately in TX the law is on the womans side. You need to get a lawyer now and start recording phone calls and such. Sounds like it's going to be messy and you need to be prepared as much as possible. If you don't have anything good on her then you might as well forget about getting full custody.

[Farmerjohn]

Sorry to hear about it man, whatever you do when you speak with her keep your cool, dont give her any ammo

[bigcountrysg]

Pm me man We can talk. I can provide you info.

For one look up Paternal Kidnapping.

If you are established as the father. You have equal rights to your son. You have the right to know where he is, if he is safe, if he is being properly cared for, the right to see your son, if she refuses this, then contact the local authorities.

Paternity is established either through Birth Certificate or DNA Paternity Test.

The first thing you need to be doing is getting off this site and finding a lawyer ASAP. Even though you are not married. You can still file for visitation and even custody if you choose to.

She can also file for child support. So you need to get a lawyer, establish temporary custody order and visitation order.

Whether or not the temporary custody order will be in your favor or not does not matter. The big thing is the temporary visitation order. This gives you grounds to contact the police when she fails to allow you to visit your son. Because then she will be in violation of a court order.

Be prepared to pay child support. This is going to be like a divorce so get ready for it.

[REDPOWERSMOKER]

Originally Posted by symbols

That sucks man. I've been in the same place. Unfortunately in TX the law is on the womans side. You need to get a lawyer now and start recording phone calls and such. Sounds like it's going to be messy and you need to be prepared as much as possible. If you don't have anything good on her then you might as well forget about getting full custody.

I WAS TO THAT WAS ILLEGAL

[SCUFFY828]

document everything , the absolute facts anyway, recording phone calls is illegal and wil not stand up in any court , the other party has to know they are being recorded to hold any wieght in a court case

[symbols]

Originally Posted by REDPOWERSMOKER

I WAS TO THAT WAS ILLEGAL

Originally Posted by SCUFFY828

document everything , the absolute facts anyway, recording phone calls is illegal and wil not stand up in any court , the other party has to know they are being recorded to hold any wieght in a court case

Well my attorney asked me if I recorded any phone calls. I did record several calls but my recorder was screwing up and I didn't know it so they were worthless and of course the ones where she said nothing were perfectly fine.

[mtcarmelfarm]

Sorry man, get that lawyer..... Laws are different in every state. You are best off working with an attorney.
Don't let her get away with taking your boy away.

[Barchetta]

Holy crap man. That sucks.

BigCountry gave you a good starting point.

Let us know later how things go and what else we might be able to do to help you out.

We're here for you brother.