i dont know what to do need help

[strokerguy]

well lately me and my girlfreind of 3 years have been fighting alot, and i feal like she is blaming me or everthing. i think she might be cheating but dont want to ask. i do love her but dont know what to do need some help.

thanks ben

[Ryan Rønning]

See if you can get her to go on a little get away or small vacation for a while. Time alone togethor sometimes helps!

[sldghamr]

thinking of asking her about her fidelity usually means there is a lack of trust.

lack of trust = a bad thing

[Eric]

Originally Posted by sldghamr

thinking of asking her about her fidelity usually means there is a lack of trust.

lack of trust = a bad thing

+1

[lsmith33]

ya that worked with my gf.....we used to fight alot an then we went away for a weekend just us 2 and talked everything out and settled alot of things. it was much beter

[strokerguy]

Originally Posted by sldghamr

thinking of asking her about her fidelity usually means there is a lack of trust.

lack of trust = a bad thing

thats why i dont want to ask her i notice that she has been texting a couple of boys lately and evertime im with her she tries to hide that she texting

[RC51]

Originally Posted by sldghamr

thinking of asking her about her fidelity usually means there is a lack of trust.

lack of trust = a bad thing

X2 ........

[Diesel Diva]

It's possible she's fighting with you, because your gut instinct is right ... she's not into you anymore. And if she's shaken up your trust before, you are right to wonder. Being paranoid is one thing, but being oblivious is another. There's a fine line between the two.

I wouldn't confront her, but I would talk to her. Ask her why things aren't the same between the two of you.

[jhaddox]

if shes hiding the texting then its not a great thing...if shes not doin anything wrong then she shouldnt have a problem showing you

[strokerguy]

Originally Posted by Diesel Diva

It's possible she's fighting with you, because your gut instinct is right ... she's not into you anymore. And if she's shaken up your trust before, you are right to wonder. Being paranoid is one thing, but being oblivious is another. There's a fine line between the two.

I wouldn't confront her, but I would talk to her. Ask her why things aren't the same between the two of you.

i have tried and she blames it all on me. she says im changing but i realy havent