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post #1 of 52 Old 12-29-2008, 01:15 PM Thread Starter
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SERIOUS OFF THE WALL QUESTION!

Ok..... so I have a serious question... Now before I ask, I want to make it clear, I am not looking for a pitty party, for someone to feel sorry for me (anything of the sort) I just really wanna know if I am going about this in the right way or if I should suck it up as a loss.... Most of you are guys and I really need a guys point of view... Anywhoooo, here it goes....
I have never met my real dad. I have been trying to meet him since I was 18, I am now 26. I have talked to him a few times (about seven years ago) but then I lost track of him and bla bla bla. Well, after hours and hours of searching I found him again. I also found his daughter (my sister?). Her and I messaged back and forth and she clearly doesn't want anything to do with me because she believes that she is her father's only daughter.... I know that he owns his own business and today I finally found it. I went there and he wasn't there. I don't want anything from this man, except to know what he looks like. I just want to meet him. That's it... It's obvious his family along with himself don't want anything to do with me, but I feel I have the right to at least meet them... IS THIS WRONG? I NEED SERIOUS ANSWERS...
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I WOULD STILL TRY TO MEET HIM.. I MEAN IT IS FLESH AND BLOOD RIGHT?

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i wouldn't do it. My sister is adopted and she went through this too and it was decided it was not going to benifit anyone or anything.

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Is there a way for you to send a note to his work just to him.... ask for a chance to have coffee??? and then leave the ball in his court? Whatever you do though, don't push!!!

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SOUNDS FAIR TO ME. HE SHOULD STOP BEING A ***** AND TALK TO YOU..

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When I was 19 he called me out of the blue and said he wanted to meet up but then never showed up. I left it alone for a little while, but curiosity is getting the better of me... I just want to know what he looks like... Seriously... If I can't have anything else from him then I just want to see his face... I think that makes sense...
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Is there a way for you to send a note to his work just to him.... ask for a chance to have coffee??? and then leave the ball in his court? Whatever you do though, don't push!!!
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I agree with banshee 34 I dont think you are going about it wrong. I would try to set up some sort of meeting, but I would go ahead and clearify before anything that you are not looking for anything, you just want to see him. It might help. Good Luck

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I agree with banshee 34 I dont think you are going about it wrong. I would try to set up some sort of meeting, but I would go ahead and clearify before anything that you are not looking for anything, you just want to see him. It might help. Good Luck
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My fiance has never met her dad either. She says, "If he wanted to meet me, he would have already." I kind of agree with her but it's up to you

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he sounds like a loser to me and you're better off not even knowing him. Anyone who abandons a child is a piece of **** in my book.

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