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How many times do you have to say no?
so I'getting married in December and since its getting clse we're starting to get RSVPs back. I was in formed yesterday that my great grandmother wont be coming because I didnt invite my mother to the wedding.
The reason I didnt invite my mother is because when I was 10 she started dating a man the physically abused me (Hospitalised twice) and mentally abused my sister. After 2 years my sister and I ran away. We were put in state custody then placed with my grandparents.
In the last 10 years I've spoken to my mother twice once in 07 and once in 2010. Neither time did she answer either on questions 1) why did you let it happen? 2) why did you chose to stay with him after we ran away?
My family (mothers side)has bugged me for 10 years to have a relationship with her again. Some of have finally just realised that it wont happen after not allowing them to see my children (taking them to see her behind my back) and not speaking to me back for 2 weeks back in april.
Is saying no for ten years not long enough for them to realise that a relationship of any sort will never happen with my mother and I?
Im just venting here have no where else to do it. Maybe looking for some insight from some who has gone thru a similar situation.
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