WTF is the deal with females!!!

[2006PSDSD]

They are so rediculous with their emotions, menstration, or what ever you want to call it. Lisa and I are getting married at the end of Sept, and the BS I have to put up with is idiotic. Things to me that take ONE decision, and ONE answer. Why the hell is it so hard for 3 beavers to get together, and can't get a damn thing done without bringing Lisa into it, and eventually me . Lisa can't/won't make decisions that probably shouldn't be given to her to make in the first place, as far as bridal showers, and bachlorette parties go, THAT'S THE BRIDES MAIDS JOB THE LAST TIME I CHECKED!!! Her sister is her BM, and is a ball dropper, and procrastinator. My Mom takes over the invites for the shower, and everybody crying, and pointing fingers. Son, of a biotch, I don't know how they are able to make it through one day without b!tch slapping someone, or completely breaking down with a water valve stuck open in their eyes

I love Lisa but this stuff is insane to me

Sorry for the rant, had to vent

[Jake]

Man, i hope what you are seeing now isn't a precursor to what the marriage is gonna be like, I'd be gettin cold feet.

[Adam-Arc]

Dude , that is why the wife and I eloped to Hawaii. Take all the money you would spend on a wedding and have biotching time in the islands! Best thing we ever did not including kids.

[GoFastPadre]

Originally Posted by 2006PSDSD

They are so rediculous with their emotions, menstration, or what ever you want to call it. Lisa and I are getting married at the end of Sept, and the BS I have to put up with is idiotic. Things to me that take ONE decision, and ONE answer. Why the hell is it so hard for 3 beavers to get together, and can't get a damn thing done without bringing Lisa into it, and eventually me . Lisa can't/won't make decisions that probably shouldn't be given to her to make in the first place, as far as bridal showers, and bachlorette parties go, THAT'S THE BRIDES MAIDS JOB THE LAST TIME I CHECKED!!! Her sister is her BM, and is a ball dropper, and procrastinator. My Mom takes over the invites for the shower, and everybody crying, and pointing fingers. Son, of a biotch, I don't know how they are able to make it through one day without b!tch slapping someone, or completely breaking down with a water valve stuck open in their eyes

I love Lisa but this stuff is insane to me

Sorry for the rant, had to vent

:h ehe: It is quite simple really. We, Men think and They feel. You ain't seen nuthin' yet. Give it about 24 years or so.

[SuperCrutyPS]

How was she when you first started dating and shortly after that? Any different than now???

I ask because as the wedding gets near(er), the stress level goes up. For some....WAY up!! Some women that are real ladies 'normally', seem to go psycho when planning a wedding.

For the lady, it is one of the MOST important days of her life. It is HER day. The groom shows up and says, "I do." But it is HER day. It has to be PERFECT!!!!

Just something to look at and compare how she was before you popped the big one and now.

Congrats on your upcoming nuptuals, BTW!!!

[05_PSD_Erik]

Originally Posted by 2006PSDSD

! Her sister is her BM, and is a ball dropper, and procrastinator. My Mom takes over the invites for the shower, and everybody crying, and pointing fingers. Son, of a biotch

I just got married on July 4th and the EXACT same situation happened. Wait til a couple days before the wedding.... I was about to call the WHOLE thing just to alleviate the stress and all.. GOOD LUCK (just keep in mind, the BEST part of the wedding, is WHEN ITS OVER!! It gets a lot better afterwards because all the stress and BS is gone!)

[Lonno]

You got a lot to learn bud. Just memorize this phrase now and you'll be golden,















YES DEAR.

[2006PSDSD]

I am in no way complaining about Lisa, but just the way females handle stress, or multi-tasking. I love her just as much now then I did when I proposed. She's a great woman, but she is NOT a decision maker, and I've known that from day one, but nobody else seems to see that, or they don't care, or are to lazy, or want to make everything HER way. The last one I could see but the others annoy me. I only have a month and a half left of this stuff . I don't have the patience for this stuff, so decisions from me are fast and concise. It's part of my job, so if I wasn't that way, things would move very slowly at work and home.

Adam, believe me I tried the, 'lets elope to Vegas or something'. She wasn't having that either

[2006PSDSD]

Originally Posted by 05_PSD_Erik

I just got married on July 4th and the EXACT same situation happened. Wait til a couple days before the wedding.... I was about to call the WHOLE thing just to alleviate the stress and all.. GOOD LUCK (just keep in mind, the BEST part of the wedding, is WHEN ITS OVER!! It gets a lot better afterwards because all the stress and BS is gone!)

I'm looking forward to the 'afterwards' part

Originally Posted by Lonno

You got a lot to learn bud. Just memorize this phrase now and you'll be golden,















YES DEAR.

She knows she's not going to get me to kiss her arse, but only a few occasions a year

[Manatee]

It does NOT get any better after you are married