About to order wheels, trying to decide on what width to go with.

[theinfamouskonrad]

Hello,
So i'm about to order new wheels for my 2012 lariat. I have the factory 20" wheels on it currently. I do already have 35" x 12.5" R20" trail grapplers and the stage 3 Icon 4.5" lift i plan to install right away.

I've been doing research on here trying to find the right offset/wheel width to run with those tires and lift and so far it looks like a 9" wheel with a 0 offset would work for me. I really don't want the wheels sticking out ridiculously past the fenders. I want to stay away from adding fender flares as much as i can. So i'm guessing 1.25"-1.75" out will be fine
Lately i've been thinking about the difference between running 10" wide wheels compared to the 9" with the same 0 offset. Any pro/cons between the two?

This truck is going to be street driven daily, and on occasion haul a moderate load in the bed.

Any thoughts/opinions to help me decide will be greatly appreciated. I plan on going with american force wheels so i hate to order the wrong size with them not being a cheap haha.

Pics of the truck..