Ok, this what I found to work with my factory front sway bar...
For the bar itself...use Energy Suspension 9.5165G
For the link ends I needed the ones from the Energy Suspension kit 4.5192
Yep, I bought a complete set and didn't even use the sway bar bushings that came with it. The new 9.5165G bar bushings come with their own bolt on brackets with zerk fittings for greasing them.
Sure hope it isn't this hard for everyone else to find the right combination.