u can always look at the "tech files" towards the top of the main forums page...
for your truck i personally would reccomend...
the ford "severe duty" airbox...
gauges (egt..trans...and boost)
a 4" exhaust
a Tony Wildman or DP tuner chip...
the chip itself will give you all that you asked for in your post.... but the other stuff you should ALWAYS do before a chip to be safe.....make sure trans temp never gets over 200 and EGT's stay below 1200-1250.....