ok, heres the story if you havent read it before:
Blowing off some steam!!!
And heres the aftermath. After the phone calls Friday while I was at Dinner with my wife, and after all she said to me about what I "need" to do, my mom told me this later on Friday night:
"We dont care about Jenn, we dont care if she ever talks to us again. She should get off her high horse and talk to us. Who does she think she is, saying she'll decide when shes gonna talk to us? You are still our son, and we will love you forever, regardless, but your wife is not welcome in our home. We dont feel comfortable around her. But, you are still welcome to come down and talk, hang out, whatever. Everyone I have talked to says you are wrong Nick, that Jenn and you dont match. You have made your bed, so you can lay in it."
I told her that since she doesnt welcome Jenn, and we ARE married, which makes us "one", and that means I am not gonna come down for Christmas. Plain fact. If Jenn isnt welcome, then I am not either. We are together, and I am sticking by my wife's side. Its hard to tell your parents to buzz off, but there is just no comprimising with a woman who thinks that she does no wrong, and cannot let her baby boy grow up to be a man. And, its not been so bad so far. I am keeping my mind busy with a new Job that I will be taking in 2 weeks. I am soooo excited about that. Better money, better benifits, better atmosphere, nice people, new company truck, gas card. Way better situation than what I am in now. I have a great job with the comapny that I am at now, but I have a chance to take a managerial postion in a few years with this company. Oh, my truck is screwing up again. I am on the phone alot with Scuffy(Scott) trying to pinpoint why my truck is running horribly. So, I am plenty busy with all this plus daily life too. everythings gonna be ok. I just hope my parents learn to accept Jenn and maybe try to reconcile things with us, sincerely reconcile, no BS-ing. Thanks to all of you who heard me out, let me rant and get this stuff off my chest. Thanks also for the advice. I am glad I am not the only one who feels and thinks like I do. Since I, well me an others too, are so wrong in the way we think about our wives.
